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Birthday And Gifts Planner

A calm checklist for keeping on top of birthdays, cards and gifts.

Remembering birthdays and gifts does not have to rely on memory alone. This routine helps you keep a simple list of key people, plan ahead and spread the effort through the year.

Step by step checklist

  1. 1

    List important dates and people

    Write down birthdays and other occasions for family and close friends. Note preferred ways of celebrating if you know them.

  2. 2

    Set reminders ahead of time

    For each person, choose a reminder date one to four weeks before the event depending on how much preparation you need. Add these to your calendar or RoutineHQ checklist.

  3. 3

    Keep simple gift ideas

    Note down gift ideas as they occur to you through the year. Small hints from conversations can live here until you need them.

  4. 4

    Batch buy cards and wrapping supplies

    Stock up on a few cards, envelopes and wrapping supplies at once. This reduces last minute trips.

  5. 5

    Review the next two months

    Once a month, look ahead and check which birthdays or events are coming up in the next eight weeks. Decide what you will organise this week.

Tips to make this routine easier

  • Keep a small box for cards, gift wrap and stamps.
  • Agree a simple shared list with a partner or housemate if you share gifting.
  • Remember that a thoughtful message can matter as much as a big present.

Plan birthdays and gifts in RoutineHQ

RoutineHQ can hold your recurring birthday and gift checklist so you always know what is coming up. You can attach notes, ideas and links so planning feels lighter.

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Frequently asked questions

How often should I review this planner?

A quick monthly review is usually enough. You can also glance at it at the start of each week if you like.

What if I miss someone’s birthday?

It happens. Send a simple belated message and adjust your reminders so it is less likely next time.

Do I need a big budget for gifts?

Not at all. Planning ahead can actually make it easier to give thoughtful, modest gifts without financial stress.

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